Any nerdy girls out there ltr

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AutoModerator [M]. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. Your perfect fantasy about falling in love with one perfect girl forever is some blue pill fantasy.

There have been girls who have wanted to cheat with me - which imo, is also fucking traumatizing. I don't want to fuck over some guys girlfriend - no matter how shitty or "nice" he may be.

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I mean, I get them even from some of my female accointances not friends though - they don't do that shit. Yeah, no shit. I mean, the perfect human being doesn't exist - people "fall out" of love etc. It doesn't mean that I don't want "plates". What's the freaking solution then? Being a dudebroh who "fucks bitches" is as appealing to me as being a president of a knitting club. A man who is desired by many women but chooses one is admirable. TRP is here for you to understand female sexual strategy.

It is amoral and aims at nothing more than your success with women. You can do whatever you want with this information but your post reeks of scarcity mindset.

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Do you want to be the guy she fucks on the first date or makes wait? Another result is knowing that you can replace your girl if she acts up or red flags pop up. This forum is all about empowering men. Even though I'm decently attractive I've been told that by my friends and girls I'm definitely not desired by many women. There have been maybe some instances where girls have made moves like at parties, a group of girls comes to you and starts flirtingbut it doesn't happen often.

I don't want her to fuck ANY guy on the first date - that's the repulsive part. I find it hard to be attracted to most women due to this kind of behavior. It doesn't matter if i'm the "chad" or not - I don't want her to want that, so that's where most of my issues stem from since, well, it's apparently biologically normal. Yeah I mostly agree, but like I Any nerdy girls out there ltr - it isn't about the act itself, it's about being "wanted" in a sense. I still don't want to fuck a girl who has a boyfriend, someone who wants to hook up while drunk etc.

When I was a young boy I thought like you, twice the circumstances were perfect, the girl I liked jumped on my lap and wanted to make out, I said no because "the circumstances weren't ideal". I realised later that I rejected girls because of my own fear and expectations. Stop romanticising and fantasising. Life is not a Hollywood movie and just date women, the more experience the better. I guarantee the day you wake up you'll wish you didn't waste so much timing overthinking. THe guy you don't want to be is the guy who have the options that you want to have. ANd the guy you are now, clearly dont't.

Just make peace with this fact quick. It is like people say "dude you are aiming with eyes closed" and you "I don't care, what is wrong with shooting with my eyes closed?! I just want a blessed shot like i am now. I think you nailed it. I also believe he needs the power of being that man he doesn't want to be, in order to be able to sustain his goal ltr, when he gets it. Something is blocking you from the masculine you. Or maybe you are just low t. I know you said you got it tested, but it would be interesting to know what you got. I am Alpha— my mission is to help others grow and find fulfillment.

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In order to do that for others, I have to do it for myself first. I completely agree with you. To me, there isn't any "true alpha" - it's mostly used to describe a guy who is sexually wanted. I am trying to accomplish my goals music, de, fitness etc. So yeah, like I said in another comment, it seems that I have two options of being a guy who "fucks", but is not at all interested that much in banging multiple chicks, nor is interested in lust, spinning plates etc. Your definition of Alpha is Outcome Dependent. Being Alpha is knowing what you want, and maintaining your Mission as your mental point of origin.

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I'm like this weird bastardization of "male hypergamy" - I won't be able to have sex because I don't find any girl "good enough" to do it with. I have no clue on why I'd rather wank than actually have sex with a girl - it seems borderline repulsive to me risk of STD-s, pregnancy, "ruining her" in a sense, etc.

I get turned off so easily - when I know a girl has had a lot of partners like most girlswhen she acts too sexual etc. It's easy to say "lower your standards" but what If you literally can't? Even though sjws crave the most masculine and the most degrading shit you can think of. I've had a decent childhood - noone has told me that being masculine is bad :D My parents have even encouraged me to hit the gym, be social etc. I somewhat agree, although our idea of masculinity may wary. Is it confidence? Yeah, I'd love to be more confident.

Is it overall dominance? Depends on the context. Is it physical fitness? Totally agree. Is it wanting to fuck a lot of girls while being rough? It IS considered masculine, but why the fuck do I find it repulsive? But yes, your last test result was very good.

As the other guy pointed out, you are trying to fire arrows blind and hoping you get a lucky shot.

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The alpha you dread of becoming is not only the guy who just bangs tons of hoes but also has the most options for a ltr. Nice to know. I've always been very skinny and have had really small bones, but muscle growth has been relatively easy. Gotta eat more. That's kinda what sucks. It's just really damn hard to find when most girls just aren't your type and you aren't most girls type.

Yeah that's fair. Again, a huge problem is me not making any moves due to not being interested in most girls. My friends have been pissed when they've seen me reject a girl who has wanted me due to her "not being my type". Don't want" meme IRL. You sound like you have arrogance— what are you actually doing to better your situation? You sound like a Virgin AFC who wants mediocre starfish sex with one woman.

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What are you doing to accomplish these low value goals? I don't thing you understand. I've been into all that "self improvement" stuff for years - I've know about the red pill for years there are a lot of things I agree with, a lot of things I disagree with etc. When I found out that all he wanted me to do was that typical "hit on a lot of girls brah" I stopped. I don't HAVE any dirty ass fantasies - hell, my "dirtiest" sexual fantasy with girls is to find a decent girl, sometimes have normal sex.

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Other than that, I still want to focus on my own skills. Like I said, I'm not interested in being a dominant "alpha chad" - it's not hot. Nor is being a "submissive" guy. I'm literally asking what to do in my situation if i'm NOT interested in having sex with a random girl. Prime example of DEERing. Go back to my first question— what are you actually doing to accomplish your goal of having an LTR that you will inevitably lead to implode in the future? I have a really hard time finding women that I truly like. And yeah, I rarely approach usually, the rare time I have approached, I've made one step and the girl has made 3 steps back.

You have a scarcity mentality, and fucking something, anything, would help you with that. To me, it's not a about the act itself, it's more about "being wanted" etc. Every time I've "been wanted", I've felt better - that's true. What RP Books have you actually read? I want to be blown away by how little this self proclaimed incel has internalized. I've been through all the phases during like What I found is the good old "normie" advice of "be the best version of yourself" makes me mentally at least sane - trying to "hold frame" or "be alpha" makes you damn tense.

You can't even feel happiness anymore. At least now I'm "free" in a sense that I don't try to become someone I don't really want to be and I can relax. Even though this approach still doesn't help me with my goals, It's way better than "trying to be alpha" When I started, I read books like The Game, Models.

Any nerdy girls out there ltr

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